Questions About How To Be A Good Kisser For Guys

Paul asks…

What makes a guy a Good Kisser?....Ladies Only?

What makes a guy a good kisser for you ladies....what are the positives and negatives a guy should or shouldnt do in order to be a great kisser?.......

What was your most memorable kiss and how'd it feel?

admin answers:

Kiss should start out slow, tender, little nibbling on the lower lip, never messy or painful. It should evolve into a long tender kiss that makes you have a tingly sensation from that starts your feet to your legs to your stomach to your chest, etc.

It takes you on a ride and on a different level ; )

Robert asks…

how to be a really good kisser?

i need specifics please..
like what do girls want you to do in order for you to be an awesome kisser.
like, idk just everything & anything you have knowledge about to offer would be great. i know there are a lot of ppl out there wondering this same question; but im asking. so please help: what makes a guy a good kisser, making out & just kissing??

admin answers:

Don't drool all over her mouth while kissing. Women don't like wet or sloppy kisses.
Don't keep your lips stiff and rigid. You've got to keep your lips soft and sensuous. She needs to be able to feel your lips.
Don't keep your lips closed. Open your lips! Women don't enjoy kissing just a slit on a guys face.
If you don't know how to kiss properly, try to practice on the back of your hand. Pretend that you are kissing a hot & sexy beautiful woman that you're dying to become intimate with.
Play it up a bit, dont come in to strong you could scare her off, and for making out dont just stay with her mouth kisser her forehead and neck, just change it up a bit

Mandy asks…

How do I know if I'm a good kisser? && some tips (For guys)?

14/f
So I've only had one bf, but we've gone out three times.
Only this time have I actually made out with him.
On his Myspace profile it says he loves my kisses, but he's never said it in person to me.
When we are together he always shows me that he wants to make out, but some time I kinda like to tease him a little and just giggle when he shows me he wants to.
Well let's just get down to the kissing part of it now.
ok when we kiss my top teeth kinda hit his bottom lip alot.
Is that normal?
And he tends to have HIS tongue in my mouth most of the time.
(He has had alot of gfs and has made out with alot of girls too.)
I really don't know what to do with my toungue since I'm WAY new with this.
So can I get tips on what to do with it too and what guys like, too.
This sounds weird but when he puts his toungue in my mouth I kinda suck on it a little because someone told me that was super sexy to do.
Is that true or not?

admin answers:

Gently fight back against his toungue, but never shove your toungue down his throat as it is very easy to accidentally do so and make him gag or something along that line.

Try not opening your mouth when he goes in for a kiss and tease him, then he *might* gently bite your bottom lip to get you to open up, which you might. But remember, don't suffocate his face and make sure he's not suffocating yours.Try to mix your kisses up a bit...don't always do the same thing! Be creative and remember to be gentle. ^-^

Laura asks…

trouble being with good guys?

i always go for the bad guys, that end up abusing me or whatever. this is because i feel as if i deserve them because i am such an ass kisser. i have tried getting a good guy to like me, but they never do. and they never, ever come to me either. i don't understand i am pretty, and nice, but is being an ass kisser the problem? how do i get good guys to like me?? thank you.!

admin answers:

Try being a lip-kisser...

Carol asks…

how can a guy be a good kisser?

just what to know because when i finally get a girlfriend for the first time i would want some tips on how to kisser any opinons

admin answers:

Grab her by the shoulders, turn her around, tell her to bend over and spread her a**cheeks. Bend over, pucker up, and kiss hard.

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Questions About How To French Kiss A Guy For The First Time

William asks…

How to kiss a guy for the first time?

Ok well I'm 14 and Im going out with a guy tonight and his friend told me hes gunna kiss me tonight but I'm scared because what if he thinks I kiss like a fish? How do I kiss him? And its not gunna be like a french kiss session or anything probably just a regular one
Its my first time
any tips on how to be a good kisser?

admin answers:

U could go for just pressing lips together don't really pucker but don't be all limp or you could open your mouth slightly and do the short movie style kiss where u interlock lips. If I were u I would go for the second one it's alot more enjoyable but don't open your mouth alot just enough to like interlock lips.

Susan asks…

how do you kiss a guy for the first time?

i am mormon and im not allowed to date before i turn 16 but my birthday is saturday and i have a guy waiting to go out with me. my friend told me that he has something really cute and romantice planned for us to do and we will most likely kiss. how long should the kiss last? how do i have a perfect first kiss. any tips on a first kiss would be great! oh and i dont want it to be a french kiss. thanks!

admin answers:

As an ex-mormon I was taught that one thing leads to another so it should just be short but sweet. So I am guessing their should be no tongue involved, but you don;t need to kiss him, like your ksising your mom (I call this the fish kiss) you can touch lips with your mouth relaxed, but not so relaxed that a tongue can sneak in there.
My first kiss, I think some how I got slobber on him, he was mormon as well, and I got a hersheys kiss from seminary, i save dit for him, I was going to say "Do you want a kiss." and he would look confused and then bring out the kiss, but, it went different. I asked him if he wanted a kiss and he said yes, and then I just let go of th ehershey kiss in my pocket and gave him a kiss.

Joseph asks…

How I should kiss a guy for the first time if..?

If will be at home, watching a movie, with no light (we will turn off all the lights). How I can make it special? I know that it will be a french kiss so I wanna ask you how to make it romantic and great?

admin answers:

I think that you should randomly just be like truth or dare? And then if he says dare then say close your eyes and kiss him. If he picks truth then kiss him and ask him how it was.

Sandra asks…

How do you french kiss for the first time?

me and my boyfriend have always did the little pecks,well today i asked him why we never french kissed before.he told me because he never french kissed a girl before and i never french kissed a guy before.can somebody help me please.we want to see each other on friday and i need step by step directions please!!
o and i have a tongue ring

admin answers:

Open mouth..touch toungs with toungs

Ruth asks…

How to french kiss for the first time?

Okay so ive never kissed a guy and my friend has been presuring me so i told her i wanted to wait til i was ready, and i feel i am now..but i have NO CLUE what to do and all she can say is " go with the flow " and i know thats true but i still want to know what exactly to do and how do you pull away? please please please help"
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admin answers:

Definitely do NOT open your mouth as wide as you can. Definitely a major turn off. But just dont stick your tounge in and out, you have to do other things. Just play around with the other persons tounge, and just be really smooth with it. Maybe once your more experienced, you can do the tounge swirl thing where you swirl yours around the tip of theres for a little bit, its fun, and a turn on. Or go ahead and give it a shot! And when your finishing up, you just kinda bring your tounge back into your mouth, its a natural thing and it just happens. And i know the guy i hook up with really likes when i bite on hit bottom lip, so maybe you should try that
good luck and i hope its great :)

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Questions About How To Be A Good Kisser For Girls

Robert asks…

How do i know if im a good kisser? i need help, especialy girls..?

Ive kissed b4 but not french style!! How do i know if i kiss good?? I can tie a cherry stem. Ive kissed only at a party, spin da bottle, kiss and hold for like 5 secs but dats a bout it.. This might seem dumb, but girls what to you is a good kisser??

admin answers:

First do not stick your tongue so far down a girls throat as to choke her, second do not slobber all over the outside of her mouth.............thats disgusting to most normal females.

Joseph asks…

how to be a really good kisser?

ok well im a 15 year old guy and just made out wit a girl for the first time we made out about 4 times and i dont think i did that well so i asked her and she said i wasent that good, so girls what do u like when making out wit a guy?? and how far do u put ur tounge in there mouth lol..i was just winging it the othere nite so help me hahah

admin answers:

Haha wow! I can't believe that she just outright said that you weren't a good kisser. One thing to keep in mind is that she probably doesn't even know what she's talking about, because I'm sure that she doesn't have much to compare you to.

But just some advice: Don't be too sloppy. The biggest mistake that I've noticed that young guys (and even older ones) make is too much spit and too much tongue at a too forceful and fast pace. Try to be slow, but passionate. Tongue, but not too much tongue. You'll get the hang of it.

Try to be confident and not too nervous. Girls can sense if you're confident in the way that you kiss and it's a turn on. On the other hand, if you're not confident then it can be a turn off.

And don't worry about it too much because these girls probably have as little experience as you do! So if you think about it, how much more do they really know about kissing then you do? Probably not much, so it's kind of a shared learning experience, I guess.

Jenny asks…

Is it okay to ask a girl if you are good kisser?

Say you are dating girl and you go in for the kiss and the date ends. How do you know whether you did a good enough job in the kissing department. Is it okay to ask her in a text or email after the date?

Like I know obviously you are really bad if you never see her again but what if she is seeing you again but is just being polite hoping to get a better kiss next time?

admin answers:

If she leans in for more you clearly got it going on and the chemistry is right! It can be a lot of factors! If it isn't the right person it won't matter if you kiss good or bad, just remember to brush your teeth everyday, floss and chew some gum, don't drool like a dog nothing worse than a slurpy kiss!!!

Daniel asks…

im talking to this black guy and he said it turns him off when he finds out a girl is a bad kisser...any help?

i really like him and we just started talking and everythings going relly good. and im white and he told me he likes white girls better.. which is good..lol but we were talking last night and he said the onlything that turns him away is a bad kisser and not so good in bed, my problem is that i dont know if im a good kisser or not cuz the only guys ive made out with were white and ive gotten compliments but there white... is it the same for black or do they like it different? and if there's any way to possible describe to me how to kiss a black guy good it would be greatly appreciated :) oh and is there any little things that i can do in bed or just when were hanging out that will turn him on or that he will like???... thx... btw this question is more toward black guys lol but up for any suggestions :) thxx

admin answers:

The fact he's black really means nothing at all, white guys like good kissers just as much as black guys do

William asks…

Do you think I have a good chance to have sex with this girl... Give me advice (PLEASE ANSWER I BEG OF YOU)?

I'm 17, she's 16. She's one of my sister's best friends. We flirt with each other all the time, not really in a serious way though. We always sit really close to each together and purposely rub our skin up against each other and stuff. She's very sexual and always makes those references and stuff. And like she always looks at me when she's not supposed to like when my sister tells her to close her eyes like when I'm walkin to my room in my boxers or walking out of the bathroom in a towel.

She's really hot. I asked her to teach me how to make out and she said yes and we started today and damnnnnnnnn she is a good kisser. We made out and used the tongue and everything. Then we talked bout random stuff for like 2 hours afterward. We're gonna be doing this a lot-- she's teachin me how to make out. The rest of my family is goin on vacation in like a week and she asked me if I'd be home alone at that time.

She's really opened up to me in the last few days.... She told me she's had oral sex multiple times and that she "can't help it" lol.

She told me if I wasn't her best friend's brother she'd be chasin after me. She told me the guys who she did it with wer eguys that "she loved" though and "not some random guys." But she tells me all the time she loves me in a joking way.

Should I invite her to my house when my family is gone and ask her to isntruct me about the making out and then take it from there?? Do you think she will even do it??

Please don't tell me I'm not old enough or whatever. That's irrelevant to the question. If you're going to give me some lecture don't bother answering cuz I'm just going to skip it anyway. Thanks!!!

Best answer goes to the longest answer. Give me a strategy.... a battle plan.... logn deatiled answer. thank you.


I've known her for 10 years. Most people think of her as a good girl. She's only had sex about 5 times anyway. She's never even had real sex... just oral. She's a virgin.

admin answers:

Ha ha.
I don't think you should do it for a number of reasons.
1. She is your sisters BEST friend, and I think that would be a bit weird when the girl says that she has lost her virginity to her best friends older brother. Considering the one person she is most likely going to tell all that stuff is her best friend.
2. I am assuming that where ever you are from you are not of age of consent because you said you were not old enough.

But by what you have said, it is pretty obvious something is going to happen, so it is up to you.

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